The Rant-Monday Blues-Advice Letters

**Disclaimer: The are my thoughts, opinions and responses to people asked for my personal opinion.

About 10 years ago, I started a community newsletter that gave information on resources, jobs, and advice. I received this letter in my email. I thought it was for advice, but it wasn't. I'll let you all read it and comment on your thoughts.

To the woman who was sleeping with my husband,

This letter is long overdue! There are a few things we need to get out in the open so we both know where we stand!

You see, I've known who your husband was for quite some time now. We met when he came to my job to deposit his paycheck. We talked that day and every day ever since. One thing led to another and since then we’ve been all over each other. However, in the beginning, I wasn't the only love of his life, there were others, but for the most part, they were out of his life by the time I made my move. However, I’m still around. He just can't seem to let go of me. I didn't spend much time with him when you first got married although he did spend time with the others. He’s told me that he’s even taken off with them for several weeks at a time and never left you a word. Anyway, during the last five years of your marriage, we have grown much closer.

We spend more and more time together and I think it is time you realize that I'm not going away. You may be his wife and I am sure in his way he loves you. He has said you are a good wife to him and have been committed to the vows you took. He appreciates that but it’s not enough for him! You see, I'm the one he needs. I'm what he craves and can't live without. He longs to put his hand on my slender brown body, and he yearns to press his lips against me. My taste is intoxicating, and I make him feel like a man. Being with me turns him into someone he normally wouldn't be.

Being with me makes him lose control. With me, he has no inhibitions and he'll say exactly what’s on his mind. I'm always there for him. No expectations or complaints. I hear that you've been blaming me for all of your problems with him. Well, don't! He's the one to blame; not me. He comes to me; I don't go to him. He chose me and I never let him down. You're his wife but he wants me more! He'd rather be with me than spend time with you and his children. Do you know where he’s at during mealtime? How about on holidays? Or even when you're fighting? Well, he’s with me! Even when you're getting along, he's with me!

When your relatives are visiting, he's with me! Hell, he was even with me during your daughter's birthday parties! Don't you think it is a little strange that he takes hours to run simple errands that should take minutes? I'm there to pleasure him in every way, always. He'll do anything for me. He's lied to you for me and has snuck away just to be with me. Whether it’s in a bar or his car we manage to be together every single night. Sometimes even in your own house! On his days off we manage to spend most of the day together. You almost caught us together at the supermarket, but you didn’t even catch on. When he came to see me later that night all we did was laugh at how gullible you are! He didn’t even care that we almost got caught.

Do you ever notice that after being with me, and then he returns home to you, he comes home a different person? Can't you smell me on him after we've been together? I've drained him of his energy and when he awakes, he's ready to go again. Don’t you see his feelings towards you are changing? When he returns to the house that he pays for, he doesn't even acknowledge you or even talk to you after he’s been with me? You just make him feel guilty and bad about himself. Does he touch you after he has been with me? No! When he lies down beside you, in your bed, each night, he's still under my control. He's still with me in his mind!!

My only question to you is, how could you not know that something was different with him? Your womanly instincts haven’t kicked in yet or you don’t care because you were too busy cheating with my husband to notice. Either way, you’ve lost your husband and mines because you never stood a chance against me, so get over it and pay the damn Discover card bill already. I need to go shopping because Karma is a bitch.

Sincerely,

Your sister D.